Episode 05: Learning to Be On Purpose | Mat Fisher
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I first met Mat Fisher when I was seeking out a mentor to train me in TRE, or Trauma Release Exercises. Created by Dr. David Berceli, TRE is a simple yet innovative series of exercises that assist the body in releasing deep muscular patterns of stress, tension, and trauma. That may seem like a weird concept — and it was to me when I first heard of it — but I experienced the benefits of these exercises first-hand so I wanted to learn more about it.
The funny thing is, when I first reached out to Mat, I didn’t hear anything back. I started to make all of these assumptions and judgments about why, but as it turned out, he just wasn’t coaching anymore and didn’t check that email address. (You know what they say about assumptions, right?) However, when he eventually saw it, something in my email shifted Mat; he felt called to dust off the gym shorts and the whistle to coach me. And I couldn’t be more grateful.
Fast forward to today, Mat is one of my most trusted brothers. In this conversation, you will get a glimpse at the depth of character and the quality of inquiry that Mat wields. Having these types of conversations with Mat definitely helped catalyze the Great Unlearning journey I’m on today. He has a unique way of asking questions and framing the world, and if you really take a moment to consider the questions he asks and do some of that inner work with us, those small internal shifts can really make a huge difference in the way you approach life.
We Discuss:
04:30 - Why the exercise community is like the trunk of a tree
10:00 - Learning to show up as the person who I want to be (and not the person who I think I’m supposed to be)
14:55 - Why did I build such a strong suit of emotional armor when I was younger?
18:30 - Owning the fear
25:10 - Creating the software of your own operating system
30:10 - Being empathetic and understanding as a parent
39:45 - What happens when you’re on a pedestal
49:15 - Being on purpose
53:50 - Embodying both masculine and feminine energy
56:30 - A different view on trauma and history
01:08:30 - Learning from your triggers (and not quieting them)
Resources:
The Four Agreements: www.thefouragreements.com
Trauma Releasing Exercises: traumaprevention.com
Mankind Project: mankindproject.org
Adyashanti 5-day silent retreat: www.adyashanti.org/programs/retreats-experience
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